How To Deal With Young Pregnancy

Pregnant at the young age is certainly hard to cope with. It will definitely changes your life. It will ruin your study, dignity and family relationship. Nonetheless, it is something that you have to face and  deal with, either you like it or not. I would like to urge you guys, no matter what, please don't even thing to  take the life of the baby or throw him/her away.  There is a way to cope with it without effecting you and the baby. All you need to do is, keep on being patient. Read more to find out How To Deal With Young Pregnancy.

Make up your mind

Think deeply whether you have the capability of becoming a young mother and shoulder the responsibility or not. If you think you don't have the courage and what it takes, deem to give the baby away to other people who is needed and have the capability if non of your family member have the intention to rise the baby.

Keep a good relation with your partner

Yes it is true that not many guys will show up and lend their hands for this kind of matter. However, we have to be more matured without being selfish under this kind of circumstance. So a good relation between you and your partner is certainly vital in order to rise the baby. Help each other and have a discussion and do some planning on how to rise the baby.

Learn how to be a mother

Regardless how hard it is to be a mother at the young age, try to learn it no matter what. Buy the books that relate to this matter or ask people who had gone through this situation. Do not be shy to learn this as it is for the sake of your unborn baby.

Continue your study

Find a way where you can continue study. Discuss with your college/high school about this. Whether you want to put it off or what so ever it is down to your college/high school.







Do not listen to negative comment

Well people make mistake. So the only thing we can do is make it right. For this sort of thing, I am sure there will be many people make a big fuss of this kind of matter. You just take it easy and do not listen to them. Do what you think for your own sake. At the end of the day, it is all about your life as well as the baby's.

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What To Do When Parent Divorce

Parents divorcing is a something that could wound us(their child/youth) badly. It even could effect our study. The worst part is when you are seems get abandoned by them. Parents divorcing usually will leads us to a bad life such as, taking drugs, start to take beer or alcoholic drinks(boozing) and many more. At the end of the day,we as a youth who people claim as Next Generation Leader might turn to someone who is hopeless, despair and useless. So in order to emerge from this kind of matter without effecting your life, here I provided you with What To Do When Parent Divorce.

Be neutral

What I mean by be neutral is,not taking any sides,either your dad nor your mom. Taking side means you will get involve in their matter and can make thing get worst. Regardless how close you are with your dad or your mom, avoid from being on both side

Try to accept the fact slowly

There is likelihood that certain divorces only for temporary. They will get back together after awhile. So, it is good if you can accept the fact that you parents is separate and be away from each other foryour temporarily,PERHAPS. Give them time to calm down and reminisce their moment being together. Once they have calmed, then only they can think wisely and decide what is the best for the family.

Do not be their confidant/mediator

Remember you are still young. There are lots of things you should take care of other than your parents conflicts. Do not put your self into the conflicts as it will stress you out. You got study to cope with and college assignment to do and bla bla bla. Do not put your self into hot water. This will definitely effects your study.

Share with other family member

Do not bear this all alone. If thing get worse, immediately call your other family members for instance, your aunties, grandpa, grandma or whoever you think that can help you out. You are certainly have no capability to make thing right.

Do not be guilty

Bare in mind,all these are not because of you. Do not take the blame. It is because they(parents) could not found the root of their problem and hence, fail to resolve it and decide to split up. It has nothing to do with you.

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