What To Do When Parent Divorce

Parents divorcing is a something that could wound us(their child/youth) badly. It even could effect our study. The worst part is when you are seems get abandoned by them. Parents divorcing usually will leads us to a bad life such as, taking drugs, start to take beer or alcoholic drinks(boozing) and many more. At the end of the day,we as a youth who people claim as Next Generation Leader might turn to someone who is hopeless, despair and useless. So in order to emerge from this kind of matter without effecting your life, here I provided you with What To Do When Parent Divorce.

Be neutral

What I mean by be neutral is,not taking any sides,either your dad nor your mom. Taking side means you will get involve in their matter and can make thing get worst. Regardless how close you are with your dad or your mom, avoid from being on both side

Try to accept the fact slowly

There is likelihood that certain divorces only for temporary. They will get back together after awhile. So, it is good if you can accept the fact that you parents is separate and be away from each other foryour temporarily,PERHAPS. Give them time to calm down and reminisce their moment being together. Once they have calmed, then only they can think wisely and decide what is the best for the family.

Do not be their confidant/mediator

Remember you are still young. There are lots of things you should take care of other than your parents conflicts. Do not put your self into the conflicts as it will stress you out. You got study to cope with and college assignment to do and bla bla bla. Do not put your self into hot water. This will definitely effects your study.

Share with other family member

Do not bear this all alone. If thing get worse, immediately call your other family members for instance, your aunties, grandpa, grandma or whoever you think that can help you out. You are certainly have no capability to make thing right.

Do not be guilty

Bare in mind,all these are not because of you. Do not take the blame. It is because they(parents) could not found the root of their problem and hence, fail to resolve it and decide to split up. It has nothing to do with you.

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